The last thing you want to do is blindly go up to a girl without her expecting you and get rejected. When she sees you, she is aware that you are around and might want to say something to her. When you have finally noticed her noticing you, take your time and let the situation marinate (5-6 mins or the time it takes to finish exactly one drink). I would even talk to other girls your not interested in and letting your target know your outgoing, fun, and full of confidence. If she keeps looking at you, lets say once every minute, chance are she is VERY interested in you and you have to strike while the iron is HOT.
When you first walk up to your target, make sure you have a pick up line ready to go. I usually remember at least 5 pickup lines I can spit out without even thinking (when you are drunk it helps to remember them) As you walk up look your target right in the eyes and with a cocky grin shoot her the ice breaker. If she laughs, your one step closer to getting laid. If she doesn't laugh try to keep her attention by moving onto a subject at hand like "so do you like it here?" or " whats going on later." If you can keep the conversation going, the second part in picking her up and, hopefully take her to bed, as just begun.
In all honesty, half the battle is won before you even drop a line. The key part to picking up a girl in any bar setting is getting noticed. During that notice period, try not to seem like a creep. You just want to let her know you are in the vicinity and your casually checking her out.
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