The first thing I can think of is you're not being congruent with who you truly are, this can cause a lot of confusion in a girl in she will have no idea what to think. If you're chill and relaxed one moment, and the next moment you're up and down off the walls. Obviously you're not coming across as a very genuine person and this will cause disinterest. You might be a boring person so you feel like you need to impress, but in the long run this will only slow you down the best advice I can give is to be the best you that you can be. Talk about passions, interests, anything that interests you! If it gets you worked up enough it should have a very similar effect on her.
Another giant problem is maybe you're just not connecting with her. There are certain methods you could use to connect with her. Trying to find similar interests, maybe you guys love the same music. Maybe you both had or have the same major in college. Anything works you know just something that interests the both of you! Another thing to try help create a connection is just being intimate. Obviously when you talk to someone intimately it's going to bring you guys a little closer together.
Then just try to have as much fun as possible! Girls love fun guys and if you can make a girl have fun you can easily win her heart and have her begging back for more. Do something adventurous, spontaneous, escape from the mundane reality and just go out and enjoy yourself. If you can do that for a girl I guarantee she'll be back the next day craving more. If that's not you just do the best you can like I said be the best you that you can be!
If these strategies don't work on one single girl don't sweat it. Remember girls are going to come and go there will always be more fish in the sea and you can't win them all. But i promise you that if you can try these techniques they will work for you eight out of ten times!
Till next time guys!
by Devin Zander
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