1. Make her comfortable by making a joke, but not too much - humor is statistically the most attractive quality. For instance, it's probably not a good time to kiss that girl when you're watching a movie where someone is being killed. Use a nice, romantic spot. Who doesn't like a sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night,on the beach, a paddle boat at a friends pond at night, a private camp fire... you like her. Caution though, she will like it. But if she doesn't seem to like it, resume what you were.
2. Stare into her eyes and casually look down at her lips, and then look back up again. Move gently closer to her. Better to not ask a girl to kiss you, because that ruins the moment and you might lose your kissing chance. A kiss, especially the first, is about the risk. It's about taking the chance with the girl and, hopefully, she will respond in a positive manner. If she doesn't want to kiss you, you should be able to figure it out through body language.
3. Put your hand on her cheek.
4. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Try a peck for your first kiss, then move on to longer, more passionate kisses when you're both ready.
5. Use the other hand to stroke her hair or neck.
6. Pull away. Look deep in her eyes. You want the romantic way: "Thank You." You want the funny way: "... cool." (but not in a snobby way). This is up to you.
7. Find what you were talking about before and keep going if you're not kissing anymore.
8. Remain normal after the kiss. You don't want to leave any sort of bad impression.
Kissing Tips and Techniques
Before I sign off, here are a couple of very important kissing tips and kissing techniques which you must keep in mind if you want to know how to kiss well.
o Close your eyes when you feel your lips touching hers. Looking into the other person's eyes while kissing is not very comfortable for most. Closing your eyes takes the feeling to an altogether different level.
o Maintain good oral hygiene. Smokers beware. No woman likes kissing a man whose mouth smells like an ashtray. Use mouthwash, mint, etc. to keep your breath fresh.
o If the girl turns away or pulls back, then wait. She may not be ready. If so, then respect her decision. A kiss should be two pairs of lips meeting each other, not one pair forcing itself on the other.
o Move on to French kissing and using the tongue at a later stage, NOT when you're kissing her for the first time.
I hope by now, you have got a general idea on how to kiss a girl.
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