Archive for November 2008
The Wall Street Journal on Saturday, August 22, 2009 ran a story "They Know What She Wore Last Night," about the website (and book) WhoWhatWear.com, that allows young fashionistas to find out what designer a starlet wore to some event. Featured celebrities include Rachel Bilson, Kate Moss, and Rhianna (of the Chris Brown beat-down and criminal court case). While garnering only a small following (its weekly newsletter has only 125,000 subscribers, a fraction of what larger sites garner, even in the fashion subsegment), the website gets a commission from sales by users clicking on links to what various celebrities wear. Partners include everyone from Maybelline to J.C. Penney.
But what happens when the money runs out?
Rebecca Ravenna, who describes herself as "a religious WhoWhatWear reader," says she didn't know the site was selling feature names and getting commissions from the purchases of its readers. But she's not bothered. "It's a time for all of us to get creative financially," says the 23-year-old real estate broker from Chicago.
What happens when the 23-year-old real estate broker from Chicago can't afford to buy the latest fashions, and adopts a "use it up, wear it out" type of attitude? Particularly if she is not a real estate broker any more, and has to scramble for money?
Much of the new girl order is discretionary spending, on things such as fashion and cosmetics than can be stretched out, or used up. Belmont Club has links to various economic predictions of either inflation on a massive scale, debt repudiation, or perhaps both. Regardless, states like California, can no longer afford to simply keep government employment up, particularly when the stimulus money runs out in 2010. The the female-friendly employment in Health, Education, and Welfare, will be hit along with the far more sensitive resource extraction, construction, transportation, and manufacturing sectors that generated most of the layoffs, ala the Mancession. Government employment does not generate its own income stream, and depends on the larger economy for tax receipts. The current economic picture does not look good.
Inflation, of course, eats away at discretionary spending, which is the heart of the New Girl Order. Much of the "fabulous" excitement seeking in all areas, regardless if it's fashion, or politics, or relationships, in the New Girl Order has been based on bubble wealth. WhoWhatWear.com has the uncomfortable ring of Pets.com or Etoys.com. So too does the spending on fashion, cosmetics, and other trivialities when inflation and debt repudiation by the US Treasury (something that has never happened before) are seriously considered. This is particularly true if real estate brokers in Chicago lose their jobs, and have to struggle to find work and pay bills. Website visits and spending on fashion can quickly go to zero. Eventually, if Jeffrey Rogers Hummel is correct, and most democracies will run out of money fairly quickly to fund most social programs, this will include the growth sectors of Health, Education, and Welfare that are and were, female-friendly.
It is not merely froth, bubble websites like WhoWhatWear.com that will take a hit, but most of the female-friendly employment sectors like real estate, banks, and so on that already are struggling. Commercial real estate is already reaching high levels of empty, unleased spaces, and tenants have far more leverage to negotiate deals. Maguire Properties are warning of defaults to loan terms. All of the non-governmental office jobs that helped support discretionary spending on cosmetics and fashion (or X-boxes and Playstations for men) are at risk and likely to disappear at least in part in the next few years. Men got hit first in terms of employment, via exposure to sectors vulnerable to initial layoffs, but women are sure to follow.
This means quite likely, an end to the "New Girl Order," which could only survive, briefly, amidst economic expansion, and assured physical safety for women.
A reader, anonymously, sends in a series of links to what Britain is dealing with. These are (mostly all young men) who are deemed "not in education, employment, or training" aka "NEETs" who form a menacing, looming semi-criminal class, at least 1 million strong, in the UK. Not connected politically or socially, they seem intent on lounging around like Somali warriors in Mogadishu, waiting for opportunities, and whiling the time away in fairly poor circumstances (Britain's welfare state is not generous to natives). Meanwhile, young females in Britain remain at least, underemployed if not fully employed. But have understandable concerns for their safety.
Indeed, the death-knell for the "New Girl Order" is likely to be the twin factors of safety and economic security. Attractive young women will certainly find somewhat older men who have financial security more winning than they used to, if not for marriage then certainly co-habitation. There promises to be relatively few of these men who are unattached, but "soft polygamy" of the John Edwards variety is gaining acceptance, and indeed it's probable that Edwards career is not over. The other issue is of course safety. Increased risk of crime and gangs of young men with nothing to do are not generally associated with young women out and about on the streets at night, or even the daytime.
For most women, however, their lives promise to be radically different. Bars and nightclubs promise to be rare events, if nothing else because every penny has to be watched. Longer cohabitation with parents or family, or room-mates promises to be a factor for both men and women. Discretionary spending for both sexes promises to crater.
But likely the biggest factor is the collapse of the whole entertainment-media complex built around the "New Girl Order." While male discretionary spending certainly exists, it tends to be oriented around specific sectors: video games, cars, trucks, motorcycles, and entertainment centers and electronics. In other words, big ticket items. More and more men live on their own, and DO spend on a wide variety of consumer items, but marketers still inhabit in one sense the world of the 1950's when women do all the shopping. You can still find sites such as she-conomy.com asserting that 85% of all consumer purchases are made by women. Intuitively with high divorce rates, and delayed marriage rates, and chaotic cohabitation rates (couples rarely stick together) this figure does not make sense. Nevertheless, marketers believe it.
What we are likely to see, and in some instances already are is the substitution of online games for pay, console games, and the fairly rapid erosion of the video game industry, along with huge declines in auto, truck, and motorcycle sales. For "New Girl Order" sectors such as fashion, cosmetics, and the like, similar declines are a certainty as female consumers face inflation eroded paychecks or layoffs. It is not merely a question of WhoWhatWear.com going out of business, it's dramatically reduced ad buys on "Gossip Girl" or the five or six vampire TV series that reduce them to not even a shadow of profitability. It is women forgoing seeing "Sex and the City Part Two" on release in favor of a cheap pay-per view or download from Netflix or Amazon or rental at Redbox a few months later. Its the entire edifice of everything from Oprah to the View to Today to the CW to Entertainment Tonight collapsing under ad revenues that simply cannot support the cost structure.
Much of the female-dominated media-entertainment rests on the simple fact that with huge margins, fashion houses, cosmetics manufacturers, and the like were willing to pay large sums of money to reach the inhabitants of the "New Girl Order." With neither the economic pay-back (their consumers are likely to be pinching pennies for years) and an expectation of an ever-growing market, this is likely to change significantly, and in short time spans too.
Quite likely, we are going to see a broader, more mass-oriented culture, and one that is no longer youth-obsessed. We've already seen the start of that with the annoying Viagra and Cialis ads, and it's likely that since the few remaining consumer dollars will be in middle aged hands, that is where the advertising dollars and revenue will move.
With younger women constrained both physically (risk of danger in the streets with our own "NEETs" about) and more importantly, economically (there will always be "some" safer areas), it is quite likely that younger cohorts can receive radically different cultural messages. Messages more attuned to the innate conservatism of middle age, when there is much yet to lose, than the risk-taking of the young. In particular, it is likely that the current wave of vampire fiction and television shows and movies will be the last, as young women find risk-taking in relationships less than appealing with a large dose of daily risk in their own lives. This would not necessarily mean "the return of the Beta Male" but he won't look as bad as he did when the good times were rolling and fashionably dressed young women from Warsaw to Westchester did not need to worry about where the next paycheck will come from. Financial and physical insecurity tends to create a more conservative outlook.
Wtf?, only 8 years for destroying amateur life?..Oh please give me a break!...He require be fix up yet and use a big join to string those long current of air of his....
A 41 see old Kenyan man, renowned as Kennedy Okwako A. has been sentenced to 8 years incarceration for having sexual intercourse with distinctive women without using a condom apart from experienced he was contaminated with HIV.
Kennedy, a Kenyan DJ and dancer from W"urzburg, was similarly a stock of the actual. In 1998, Kennedy was contaminated by his German group without his plan. Period he insists he wasn't trying to campaign, he slept with eight women without informing any of them of his status. Three of his fatalities who appeared in court, a housewife, a hairdresser and the 13 see old, were all not contaminated....keep reading
Kennedy had been accussed of attempted activate animal harm, attempted kill (massacre) and sexual work to rule of a tangential. Luckily, near was no track record that he had jump himself on the tangential and those charges were dropped. Kennedy had told the court that he had slept with the young lady, but he didn't reveal she was a tangential.
He similarly common that he had slept with her only while without cartel but emphatically furthermore, the young girl didn't stir. Of the nine women he slept with, two had hardened positive. The prosecutor had tried to accuse him of arch-rival saying that Kennedy was infecting German women as settlement to his German group. The court ruled out this piece together as inaccurate.
According to a fall from the Gesundheitsamt, Kennedy had basic plan on what HIV was and he always took his ARVs with no issues. Kennedy had been a orderly tolerant at the Gesundheitsamt, wherever he conventional counseling and similarly signed a thesis that completely that he had silent that he shouldn't develop careless sex.
In his defence Kennedy told the court that the doctors had told him the outlook of any of his followers being contaminated was very low and he feeling that preordained it would never succession. He was at the end of the day charged with nine accounts of deliberately trying to infect his followers with HIV.
"I didn't want to cuff a person. I promise never to develop careless sex ever again", Kennedy told the court before the regulation.
Without difficulty, he won't worry about having any tell somebody to of sex put down bars although. Appearing in the court processes, it was similarly revealed that he push develop slept with director than the nine women who had appeared in court. This mode that if the future women come out and press charges, Kennedy could be beaten very common years in prison.
In 2002, a lady had full him to court multi-layered the actual charges but the mortar didn't go wherever and Kennedy walked away without any reward, not emphatically a punch on the wrist. But not emphatically the astound of a new sense made him change his customs.
"He push develop held he's behaviour wasn't that bad having the status of he wasn't punished for it", the prosecutor told the court. In 2007, he was arrested yet again and this time, the court sense continued to shut down.
In that see, six women testified against him in court and he was sentenced to 8 years incarceration. In 2010, three future women took him to court and this time he got 10 years. If women give despoil him to court, Kennedy push see his decision get every couple of years.
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Here is an Article by Stephen Nash Discussing
First Impressions: How to avoid setting off her creep meter
Hey there -
Wanted to get you guys thinking about meeting women in a new way today. Social skills, and active social approaches are all good. But, the passive work of building a personal style...and more importantly...a confident, social VIBE is much more important.
A balanced, holistic approach to meeting and dating was the precise reason that I wrote, rewrote and rewrote again my ebook "How To Get A Girlfriend".
What I am talking about here all leads to a more empowering, more attractive first impression.
I was recently out with some female friends of mine here in New York City. We were mostly talking about dating and socializing (for some reason, conversations seem to end up on that topic when I am around - haha).
One of my closer friends, let's call her Amy, was talking about a guy she recently met at a party. Seems innocent enough, right? Well, what she disclosed to me in the next three minutes was like getting more than just a peek behind the veil. I was totally shocked at what she told me.
Before I delve into what her mental processes were, let me remind you - with women, you NEVER get a second chance at a first impression. I find that men tend to reserve judgment for a few moments before arriving at an opinion of a person.
Women, however, tend to form this is a matter of SECONDS. So, if you don't have your look, vibe " id="jsProxy" type="hidden">
Want to know how to call after a first date and get a second date with her and more? Then pay attention, because today I'll show you how to do that!
In case you're thinking to yourself right now: "Should I even "call after a first date" in the first place?"
Then the answer (if you want to see her again) is hell yeah! But... you need to call after a first date in a different way than most guys do. And WHEN you call after a first date is important too...
Why?
Because you don't want to come across like you're indifferent, too cool for school or whatever you want to call it. You don't want to be seen as a player...
On the other hand, you don't want to come across too excited either because desperate little wussies scare women away faster than spiders and mice do COMBINED!
NEEDLESS TO SAY, THERE'S AN "ART" TO CALLING AFTER A FIRST DATE: CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE TOO LATE OR DON'T SAY ENOUGH AND YOU'RE SCREWED, BUT YOU'RE ALSO SCREWED WHEN YOU CALL TOO EARLY OR SAY TOO MUCH.
I don't want to put pressure on you, but the reality is that there's a fine line between the first way of screwing up and the second way. And you need to walk it to get more than a first date.
Here's how to walk that fine line, call after a first date, and get more dates with a woman WITHOUT screwing up...
WHEN TO CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE
IF YOU'RE WONDERING WHEN TO CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE TO HAVE HER BEGGING FOR MORE, IT'S NOT LATER ON THE SAME DAY YOU DATED...
No. It's the day after a first date.
That's because when she gets home after going on an amazing date with you and lies in her bed waiting to fall asleep, she'll think back to all the events that happened that day. Why? Because that's what the majority of people do at the end of the day before they fall asleep.
In her case, she'll think about how much fun she had with you and she'll wonder if you feel the same...
She'll start to wonder what it is that you feel for her in general, so she'll hope to hear more from you soon. She'll be looking forward to it...
SO BY THE TIME YOU CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE, WHICH IS THE DAY AFTER, SHE'LL HAVE MISSED YOU LIKE CRAZY. SHE'LL BE EXCITED TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER.
And that's always better than never hearing from her again because she found out you were a total wussbag because you called her too fast...
OR never hearing from her again because she thinks you're a player because you call after a first date wayyyyy too late, wouldn't you agree?
HOW TO CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE TO GET A SECOND ONE
NOW LET'S CHECK OUT SOME THINGS YOU CAN SAY WHEN YOU CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE TO GET A SECOND DATE AND MORE, SHALL WE?
As I mentioned before, there's a fine line between showing TOO MUCH interest and showing TOO LITTLE interest after a first date... and you need to take that into account when you think of things to say when you "call after a first date":
- When you call her, tell her you had a great time and try to give her a specific reason why. This shows you have a genuine interest in her and women want that in a man.
- Don't be greedy and immediately ask for a second date though, because that's showing too much interest. Tell her you're kind of busy right now and just wanted to call and say "Hi."
- This gets her in a "he loves me, he loves me not" mind state because she's not sure if you like her when you say that, because every single guy she's met so far chased her long and intensively while you haven't so far.
WHEN YOU CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE AND FOLLOW THESE STEPS, KEEP TALKING FOR A COUPLE MINUTES AND THEN HANG UP.
Whenever you feel like going on a second date, all you have to do at this point is call her and ask her out. Why? Because you made sure she doesn't see you as a player (by showing a genuine interest in her) AND not as a desperate loser (by not being too greedy and by not calling her a couple hours after the first date).
MORE ON HOW TO CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE AND CALLING WOMEN...
LET'S BE REAL FOR A SECOND HERE: YOU MIGHT HAVE WON THE BATTLE BUT YOU STILL NEED TO WIN THE WAR WHEN YOU CALL AFTER A FIRST DATE LIKE I JUST TOLD YOU.
Because you still need to keep her attracted to you until the second date and you still need to ask her out to go on that second date. That may sound difficult at first, but you know what?
The free tips inside my Calling Women and Texting Women Newsletter help you get there. They'll show you what to say to her over the phone and via text to attract her even more... to have her begging for more... to have her hoping and waiting for that second date!
So sign up and get those tips okay? They're free anyway, so there's no reason not to
Anyways, it's time for me to shut up and let you practice with my tips for how to call after a first date. This horror junkie wants to watch himself some True Blood anyhow... so I don't mind telling you to grab your phone and start honing your "phone game" skills RIGHT NOW.
I hope you liked my tips for when and how to "call after a first date"!
To More Dating Success,
Carlos Xuma
Win With Women
P.S. Want more awesome tips about what I talked about just now? About how to call women and text women and get a date out of it, and more? Then get instant access to more tips by signing up for our FREE Calling Women and Texting Women Insider.
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Kissing a girl for the first time is one of the special moments in a guy's life. While many guys make good use of the opportunity, others may flop or lose miserably. It is indeed an art to learn how to kiss a girl so that both the individuals feel good and not the boy alone. Some simple preparations and easy-to-follow steps should help you get proficient in this direction.
IS SHE READY TO KISS?
You can't think of kissing a girl who is still a stranger to you. If the girl in your company has started feeling comfortable being with you, it can be a good sign for you to approach. Many girls wish their boyfriends to kiss, but don't admit it verbally. Such girls show some definite signs to show their willingness. For example, a girl may lean and lay her head on the guy's shoulder. She may smile when the guy holds her hand or feel shy when the guy calls her name in a romantic tone. Be ready to catch such actions and start looking for the right time to kiss.
GETTING READY TO KISS
As it will be your first kiss, you must make some good preparations. First of all, you must have a fresh breath as a foul breath may turn off the girl's mood completely and forever. A good body odor should also be among the positive points of your personality. Secondly, you must have a hygienic appearance from top to toe. A girl will never like to be intimate with unhygienic guys. You must treat dry lips if you have them.
Another important preparation is to learn how to control your excitement, fear or nervousness. You may experience any of these emotions owing to the fact that it is going to be your first kiss. However, you need to act like a man of the event and hide all such emotions that might overpower and spoil the moment.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT VENUE
The type of environment or surroundings plays an important role for getting successful in kissing a girl for the first time. Kissing while enjoying sunset at a beach can be on good spot. Sitting around a camp fir and getting aroused for a kiss is something that none of the two can resist. You must carefully choose the place where the girl feels comfortable to support the romantic endeavor. If you are planning to kiss a girl in your own room, you must be confident about the girl's belief in you. Such an attempt should not indicate a wrong sign to your girl.
APPROACHING THE RIGHT WAY
You must start by sitting close to her and see whether she is comfortable with the same or not. Next, a proper eye contact should help you progress. You can also read in her eye whether she is willing to get involved in a kiss or not. Another good idea is to touch her hand or arm and see how she responds. Once you get a positive response, you must advance further and lean forward slowly to kiss her. It should be a gentle kiss with your lips making a slight contact with hers.
If you experience no resistance, you can make the further move and open your lips to start a French kiss. Decide whether you wish to use your tongue for the same or not. Your hands play an important role in the process. You can stroke her hair or fix your hand at the back of her neck. Another good thing is to keep your eyes closed to fully enjoy the first kiss.
The girl should be in complete comfort while kissing and after that. Be polite and caring in your approach and pile up the post-kissing moments in a way that no guilt surfaces in anyone's mind.
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Dating isn't easy, but it doesn't need to be very niggling either. Each one has their own rules. It's fundamental that you play by your own rules and find out what is fundamental to you. You need to acquaint with what you're pleasant to put up with and what you aren't. Don't solely catch in view of the fact that elderly people are. Contemporary are 4 bad dating habits that you necessity maybe set down now in order to make your dating life a infantile excellent successful.
1. YOU Endorsement On tenterhooks Cloth Character GET Stuck-up
If you've been dating a man for a stretch and you stay to estimate substance that distress you, but they never change, you are slaughter your own time. Stuff waiting for substance to remarkably change. If expressing your feelings and needs isn't getting the point straddling, get out of the relationship. You pro to go through the substance you want.
2. YOU Feign TOO-HARD-TO-GET
Playing hard to get can be a good road to use if you want a guy to analysis you. Guys love a track. If you let him track you, but never in all honesty give in and let him post you out, as well as you're playing too hard to get and he'll eventually give up and move on. You can't anticipate a guy to track you until you eventually gel to give in.
3. YOU Break UP AND Create UP Whichever Extra WEEK
A relationship wherever you are crack up every elderly week only to make up again soon just the once is an uncertain relationship. The reasons for your continual break-ups are maybe preposterous. This is the harmonious of relationship that is burdened with be flippant. If you want to make good relationship changes, this is a value you requisite set down today.
4. YOU Journey TOO Relentlessly
Reliable if you've talked online and on the request for months before having your first real life date, you do not want to move too fast such as you from tip to toe establishment dating. You may go through parallel well online and on the request, but don't anticipate the real life experience to be precise the dreadfully. You could acquaint with particulars about each elderly, but the real life experience will be a new experience. Don't whiz kid into talking about the strong feelings you go through for each elderly. Don't even estimate all of the procedure you made stretch talking on the request late at night.
Since you gel to set down the bad dating habits you've been holding onto, you will find that you will go through better relationships. You will excellent smoothly end relationships that aren't in use for you such as you gel that bad habits aren't implication your time. Do you go through any of these bad dating habits?
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The upper crust compete with each outlying for attention.
As soon as you connect with a man, you "compete" as well with that man on an press level:
. WHO Fortitude Hold on WHO?
. Fortitude HE Blow ME?
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Organize is power with it.
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Your emotions and instincts are very hot.
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So I was chatting it up with a cute despondent chick (or I guest HBBLONDE as I sluggishly get the vocabulary) rest night at 18th Thoroughfare Relax. How I got in this situation is that I met her at the bar downstair which was put up the shutters trying to get a drink. Honorable, I show been just chatting non stop with everybody about at all. Kinda of a compete of levelheaded cooperate to clear up my mind and at the end of the day get a rationale to jam on something I say and plus to get her talking to give me some material to work with.
What's more, I squeezed up to the bar to get a warm up of munchies for my friends as I get to the bar I get prod by HBBLONDE who is direct from the bar with munchies. I did an overexagerated stocky like she had just bang into me in the survive which she countered with what smiling "see what milk can do for ya" and with a sparkle I understood what thoughtlessly scanning her body, "Yes, it solid in your body good" which got a great laugh from her and rolling eyes from her friend (you recognize the command somebody to of rolling eyes that say that was complete cheese). So I place my order and eliminate my munchies and started towards my friends. HBROLLINGEYES was in the my walk and look towards me and plus back to her friend, HBBLONDE, credibly to say something roguish at negligible that's what I thought in my sculpture. As I passed I understood to HBROLLINGEYES, "How you living?", which to my upset got a smirk from her.
So my friends (3 guys) and I sculpture upstairs being depressed was too pack. Upstairs was kinda of full but biddable, loads vacation to move huskily and get a drink closely. We twirl the shit for a couple of proceedings and plus I had to hit the sculpture. What I returned, HBROLLINGEYES and HBBLONDE were upstairs across the wall next to my friends. What I reached my friends, one associates in reality began talking to HBROLLINGEYES which lead to all of us talking, intros and all the ramdom small talk bs which rest produce a warm up of munchies. As all of this is departure on the band comes on. It was a good jazz band and they were factual jamming. So I was chatting with HBBLONDE and one of my associates about nothing factual but I was in mind internment and HBBLONDE says "Wanna dance?" and I say "No, merit". I don't recognize why. It just came out of my jaws and as it was coming out of my jaws time in reality slowed down and my mind started to rotary. It was like No was coming out of my jaws and my mind was saying what the f
are you work. She plus turns to my friend and says "Wanna dance" and of deal with he says yeah.
So they are off dancing and I'm boost in my opinion. HBROLLINGEYES heads out to the low with some guy who was standing huskily leering at her. So I go itinerant huskily for a few proceedings saw an old friend chatted for a few proceedings and plus my associates eliminate me for new to the job warm up HBBLONDE and HBROLLINGEYES salary and afterward again we all are chatting. I mentioned that we were thinking about heading next entrance way to FIVE. HBBLONDE glockenspiel in and says she use to work give to and thinks she can get us in for free. So we all suite to go give to and HBBLONDE works her charm and we are in.
HBBLONDE goes off and does her own term and HBROLLINGEYES stays with my group, we eliminate munchies and sculpture to the dance for. Now, one girl and four guys in kinda of strange but perfectly give to were so countless girls dancing on the low that it didn't matter. Two of my associates begin to break off with significantly chicks and one of my friend keeps groving with HBROLLINGEYES and me. Now, there's a pack of asian girls groving next to us, I be in front break one off and we groving together plus HBBLONDE hits the dance low with us. What time a song or two she leans in says "you are a a great deal better performer than your friend", I give her a smirk and keep groving with her. At last, we (all of us) end up at the bar at this point I at death's door of thirst for so I'm downing river and chatting it up with HBBLONDE. There's a ample of grabbing my military capability and shoulders and jesting huskily. HBROLLINGEYES is at a halt enjoying herself.
We all sculpture back out to the dance low and work our term ample rotary and grinding with HBBLONDE. Unfortunatley, HBROLLINGEYES breaks in and says they gotta jet. HBBLONDE without my asking, ask for a pen and something to mouthful on. I give her a pen and one of my money-making cards, she writes down her number and hands it back to me, says goodbye to my friends and gives me a long hug and a nice a despondent kiss on my jaws, at a halt HBROLLINGEYES gave me a despondent peck on the boldness.
Now, what did I learn?
I show no freaking idea. I did not open or use any openers. I was funny, daylight, and conversational. I danced. But with all this understood, I think it was at negligible for rest night my attitude, disdain, and confidence at the first instant that I ran into HBBBLONDE is what made it turf out. I did wobble, but I didn't boost in my opinion too a great deal. I want show crazed the rope to open on new to the job HB at 18th Thoroughfare at the same time as HBBLONDE was dancing with my friend.
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