If you are among these types of guys, these easy steps will help you cope and chat effectively with any type of lady at the first date:Make sure you ask her questions that will never demand a single word reply: with this method, you have the chance of getting her full discussion because she may not be able to answer you with single words or short sentences in reply. This means that you have to ask her such question as these; tell me about your family who is your role model and why?' describe your best moments and worst moments tell me things you find difficult doing tell me things you just don't like doing but you end up doing them and why?' etc. stuffs like that can keep her engaged and will definitely make her very happy. Before you know what is happening, she is already into the conversation. Please, bear in mind that some ladies are quite difficult to be engaged in conversations, especially when they just don't feel like chatting with you. In this case, just ask her plain: 'is it that you don't want to chat with me dear?'Allow her to also talk more: most guys usually command the order of the conversation during their first date in the wrong manner. All you have to do to be the commander of the conversation is try to allow her to talk even more than you! The truth is that ladies love talking and allow them to talk while you do most of the listening. They love it that way. Please, don't get it twisted, I didn't say you shouldn't talk too, all I'm saying is that you listen more than you talk.
Don't be too funny and don't be too serious: you have to balance everything. Ladies are somehow complicated. No matter how serious the conversation tends to look, please, do not be too serious; occasionally add humor into it. Also, no matter how usuriousness the conversation may be, please, do not be over funny, try to be a little bit serious. She will respect you for that.Make the date as clear as possible: there is no need trying to impress the lady or surprise her during the first date. If you wish for the date to be a night date, please, inform her first and seek for her opinion, if it is going to be only a soft drinks that will be taking at the date, also tell her at the onset, if you wish you both eat at the date, you have to inform her too. Now, this is important in the case that it will help reduce the expectations from the lady. May be, you don't have much money to buy her lunch, all you have to do is tell her that you want to take her out for a drink.I hope these easy steps will guide you in your FIRST DATE and help improve your CHAT LIFE with the opposite gender. This post is still part of my TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE, please; do share my posts with your friends online right away.
