Although this is a positive society move there are a recent 'breed' of women how have more money than men and are not getting dates. Kenyan men obviously shy away from any woman who seems to have financial prominence, since they certainly think these women are arrogant, un-datable and out-of-control. I want to think differently, since dating has nothing to do with her money!
Naturally a woman who loves you is inclined to being submissive to no matter how tough she looks or how much money she makes. Dating a woman with more money is no different than dating a broke woman. You just have to know where and when to do things right. The following 5 tips will make your dating easier if you are dating a woman who makes more money.
# 1 NEVER BE INTIMIDATED BY HER EARNING MORE MONEYThis is easier said than done, but if you show any signs of intimidation by her money, dude you are gone. Just assume you are in control and be in control of everything. Remember your God given ability to lead and use this to remain in control.
# 2 NEVER BORROW HER MONEY Borrowing her money will make you a vulnerable debtor soon you will turn to a defaulter and the relation will grow sour. You should ensure you make your own money and not relay on her to give you money to buy your stuff. Let her money stay away from your hands. If you keep this rule, she will begin respecting you as a man.
#3 MAKE HER APPRECIATE YOUR JOB
A real man character is a serious sense of thoughtfulness blended with some slight stubbornness. A woman who makes more money than you will want you to leave your humble career for her to do things for you. Never fall into this career. Let her learn to appreciate your career as something that you can't do without. If she does not appreciate it when has to get used to it. Period!
#4 NEVER STOP PROVIDING FOR HER AND FAMILY BECAUSE SHE MAKES MORE MONEY Many men who date women who make more money they fall into the trap of failing to provide for her thinking she will take it easy. Just provide to your ability and let her complement you for providing. It will make you more a man and you will feel you have contributed your role in the relationship. You will also notice that women are inclined to be provided no matter how rich they become. This is why many women always look for men who are doing better than them.
#5 SHOW HER IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY I once saw a reply to this question in a forum 'What do you if she is making money than you' One of the replies read : "'"MY WOMAN MAKES MORE MONEY THAN ME? GREAT! SHE CAN BUY THE CONDOMS AND LUBE THEN.'"
If she is making more money than you adopt an attitude than your relationship has nothing to do with her money, it's about you and her being happy. If you have such an attitude you will successfully date a woman with more money without any worries.
GOOD LUCK WITH DATING WOMEN WITH MORE MONEY.
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