My Girlfriend Has Broken Up Suddenly What Do I Do
(relationship problem by ranbir.oberoi@yahoo.in)You've mentioned that she was in touch with her ex-boyfriend telling you that she was over him, but the moment she broke up with you, her excuse or reason was that she wanted to get rid of both of the guys in her life. It's pretty obvious that her boyfriend still loved and she wasn't over him even though she believed she was, which was the reason why she was taking those calls and going through all those traumatic talks that creepy ex-lovers do. Now, there could be many reasons, and to point out one would be a stupid mistake, but you can map out all the possibilities: - Write down what all could be possible because you're the one who knows more about her life than me. - IF it is her ex-boyfriend, then find out if she still talks to him or not. If you can't then call her in the night and see if her number is busy, if it is, call immediately on her ex-boyfriend's number too and see if it is also busy or not. That is confirmation enough. - Talk to her friends if you can and extract any information. - Talk to as many people you think who can provide you any information.ALWAYS REMEMBER, IF A GIRL HAS BROKEN UP WITH YOU BY GIVING SOME INSANELY STUPID REASON, THEN SHE IS NOT THE ONE TO DRILL. Obviously she lied to you in the first place, so buying what she tells you is the sign on stupidity. - Apply your mind to all corners. Talk to her ex-boyfriend if you can. She will tell you not to and blahblah, you can simply say - "Now, you have broken up with me. So, right now, shutup." Go meet her ex-boyfriend, take him out to a coffee, what I mean to say is, meet him like a gentleman, and not like you are going there for a fist fight. Good behaviour would generate good response. And also remember, he is hurt too. So once he feels you can understand his pain, he will pour out everything from his mind like a child. ALSO REMEMBER, WHEN A GIRL LEAVES YOU FOR NO REASON, SHE DOESN'T CARE FOR YOU AND ONLY FOR HER HERSELF. THE NEED TO FIND THE TRUTH BECOMES A MISSION AND ACT LIKE A MAN AND NOT LIKE ONE WHO IS INFLUENCED BY THE GIRL BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO FIND OR KNOW THE TRUTH IN THE FIRST PLACE. So do not stop at any place if she tells you to. Do not share any information until you are completely sure about it. Remember, you are on your own until you find the truth. And once you do, then ask yourself the question, what should I do!Now is not the time. (IF YOU HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS OR QUERIES, PLEASE POST HERE AND YOU'LL BE REPLIED WITH A DETAILED ANSWER)
Reference: pualib.blogspot.com
