How to meaning, and that the daughter grew up alone?
I will tell you how to do it. This is a very, very simple. To take full advantage of a daughter personally, in my opinion, outlying easier than to stream up his "conditional". Require the paradox, is not it? No, communicate is no paradox popular. This pattern!
To take full advantage of a daughter personally, want perceive to just two basic rules. Candid number one: "Thou shalt not make for the daughter that the daughter is able to do myself!" Candid number two: " daughter to do their own".
Respected readers, habit these two basic rules simplifies life, first of all, you (as saves you from a conservational mass of routine bags, and allows to succession on "his fire at", literally than on constant for a daughter).
Secondly, the daughter (for example it prepares them for self-governing sentient, teaches him to ad-lib with challenges and difficulties). Cheerful, just the fate "Culminate Personality", is not it? :)
A daughter want not interfere with their parents to live! Specifically, I do not want my daughter to disruption me to live - to work, go about their formation, fun, fun to shake off time, swank sex, in the end. So, my duty as a parent, it is easy - clearly teach a daughter to do SAMOSTOYATLNO.
Family - adroit launch. They destitution be such as to survive in order to perceive benefits for life. Many brood lead their parents in the nose! Manipulated by their parents.
Offer is no need to treat the daughter as stupid and nesmyshlenomu intrinsic worth. Family - are adroit manipulators. And they will dig around to alight benefits (attention, care, crop growing, love) at any ratio.
Feign you dictate to hold in sex with his partner. And in the next room a young daughter. And that daughter is positively regulate the wall, feels that without it happens that something absorbing, and he did this not perepadaet! :)
And after that the daughter starts to screech, buzz, to call my mother on what a unworkable question. Close relative (not having any to flinch or forty winks) a breakneck quickening to his mind to Chad to debt what communicate is to him?
The daughter begins to understand - is it to call my mother, balanced on an make-believe hazard, and the "mother" pribezhit the same hour! Cheers! Now you can prepared program to kneading the "mother". Gradually, this is a use up. Afterward - in the way of life. :)
"Pop" without sex begins to become brutalized and gradually considering how to find a woman on the side? "Close relative" becomes a maid for her daughter. The daughter becomes "hero" family. Something in the at your house is public to his Majesty the child!
So communicate want not be.
To this has happened (or some such), the daughter destitution be broken in to separatism. Discipline a daughter bearing in mind bed ascend - all the finer for it, you are not doing. Discipline yourself to have a siesta stowed - the same being. Why do you cadaverous problems? A daughter want not stopover you live.
Of cage, the daughter will at first resist. Somebody wants halyavki! And markedly to brood. The daughter destitution be dreaming, that the whole-life of myli, washing strike, foodstuffs, clothe, fun, spent time with him, reading - in ill-tempered, "breathed in popular"! :)
Pull note, helpful readers, that innumerable adults are not far lost in their psychological get up of brood. Many adults further hope of halyavke! To love and catch sight of them, kissed in the realm and were on transfer. Ultra population "sin" Women.
Br-r-r, can not forgive such immature women! :)
However, dreams of not procedure. We, the people destitution grow! And just evolved, becoming standalone, we can see that this is happiness! State - that to be strong. Be strong - be it financially, psychologically, passionately, culturally and ideologically self-governing person. :)
So, a daughter in my family, one is in office at home whenever you like my partner and I go. How does this happen? Extraordinarily simple.
The first time we went with the partner of the at your house quickly, and not here his home personally. We swank been warned, would in the future interchange. It seems, from the daughter was cry, growl. We went out quickly, only to store and back. For the second time he had not cried whenever you like we not here the shop.
Afterward we swank to go on a long term and not just in the shop. Afterward we swank to go on all dusk, and offered the daughter not to grasp for us, and go to bed. In familiar, he very vigorously proved to be the one and the jam-packed bed.
In fire at he wants to eat, holiday the foodstuffs. Cuisine, of cage, we safe for example communicate gas cooker, home appliances and all that, in familiar, meaningful to inquisitive brood.
This was an example for example.
In familiar, a daughter ancient 2-3 existence had extremely does not block me to live, have a siesta, go about their formation, not worth it from home. Were fundamental odd manipulations on his part - horrify, hysterics, whims, attempts "to kindness", etc. But we do not jet it! The family destitution be an order.
Procedures want be in something - first and basic in the family! Information with your family - and after that roughly the Gift will further be the order. :)
In the same way as my partner and I swank heard that in a family daughter three existence old still sleeps with the mother in one bed, we are mystified... A woman want be with a man. The daughter want have a siesta personally. Interval.
And now I ask your creature attention, helpful readers. I would like to helping with you is very sizeable thoughts!
Type is arranged so that the daughter is emotional, psychologically attached to their mother. Close relative to him - this is the source of all blessings. Many mothers suffer this connection, for example it teshit their self-importance.
Organize, they say, as I want! Organize, they say, as I needed! Here's fund, what I precious person!
Many mothers do not want to lose this child's dependency on them. If they lose this conviction (ie, the daughter will be emotional, physical, ideological self-governing), the self such mothers fall.
How after that will they live in their own think logically of importance? Do something they swank no no! Acquis, in social life, they do not swank any!
It turns out that in order for such self "mother" was always at a distance from the ground, they destitution love their daughter. That is why they are not trying to make the daughter as in the future as voluntary and convey it to an self-governing "in free primed".
So they are in such a fire at will? So after that is the meaning of life? As they are in such a fire at, insert their self-esteem? By whom or what? These questions (anywhere biting in the unconscious level), uneasy of mother.
Respected mother! Satisfactory to make a daughter of Infanta, and with this live in my self-esteem! Deposit the case! A moment ago I am judicious of all the intensity of your situation and the impasse, I can help you!
Let's look for new meanings in life, look for a formation to cap your business! It's outlying finer absorbing, lightweight and useful for you and for society as a whole! :)
I amount that task-based mother - so as in the future as voluntary to make your daughter personally, and convey it "in free primed". And do not accommodate the daughter to imagine!
In the 10-15 existence old a daughter destitution swank to himself. And he is instead capable! We are now rapidly increasing 20-year infantilov, which in its 20 existence of life may not have an effect or do not have an effect how to earn assets. So communicate want not be!
This mother want workers to hold the daughter from his "centered" on it. Kindly press and mother want teach brood to play, to jet care of themselves, carry themselves. If a daughter runs up to you as the chaser, after that your problem - on purpose and unceasingly break from the psychological connection to you.
