Destiny is not a matter of chance. It's a matter of choice. Or in other words, our reality is simply a result of the decisions we have made.
"....Just DECIDE, what it's going to be, who you're going to be, and how you're going to do it, just DECIDE, and then from that point, the universe is going to get out of your way, it's like water..." - Will Smith. Are you someone that is good at making decisions throughout your day? Or do you keep delaying things that need to be settled, worked out, or acted upon? I see more and more men who settle to just flow with the crowd without taking the time to decide what they want, wondering why they are unhappy most of the time. And when it comes down to making some decisions, they are busier thinking up excuses why they can't do something, instead of trying to figure out how they can do it.
The man who isn't constantly making important decisions in his life has no vision, and with no vision there aren't strong goals, and without goals, there is no progress - only mediocrity at best. When it comes to making an important decision, you should have no hesitation to get out a piece of paper and a pen, sit down with a cup of coffee, and spend however long it takes to work it out. It should be second nature.When a man can lead himself in his personal goals, he can be an attractive leader in social situations and in business. When friends don't know what to do or where to go, a leading man steps up and is the first to suggest something. At work, when everyone is waiting for orders from the boss, he thinks about the company's most important objectives and takes the necessary steps to get everyone moving. He shapes his reality by deciding what, why, and how things are going to happen.
"But what if you make the wrong choice or decision?"
Too many people are on the fence for way too long because they are afraid of making a bad decision. But the biggest mistake is always trying so hard not to make any.It's important to do as much of your homework before making an important decision, but it's even more important to just launch and get things moving. Too many people get stuck trying to make sure everything is perfect before they take the first step. And people who never take the first step, never takes the second; getting no where near what they want.
Recently, I learned that a perfectly straight line does not exist in nature. Even if you put a straight line under a microscope, there are jagged edges that go in different directions. It's only when you zoom out that it looks straight. Just like in nature, a straight line towards our desired destination does not exist either.
For example, when a pilot is flying a plane towards a destination, they never go in a straight line. They are constantly zigzagging onto and off the best course. The most successful leaders make the best choices they can with the information available to them, they LAUNCH AND GET GOING, and appropriately adjust their course as they go.
Is there any situation in your life right now that needs a decision? What have been holding off?
Today, try making all the necessary decisions you can before the day ends. Don't leave anything to chance or delay any longer. Not only will you realize how many decisions you may be procrastinating on, but you'll realize how much power is contained in a moment of choice.
Recommended books (free to download):Michael Lee - How To Be A Red Hot Persuasion Wizard
Lou Paget - How To Be A Great Lover
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