The key to succeed on your first date is to make the girl feel nice to you. Be someone who is fun to be with and make them feel comfortable at all time no matter where you take them.
The best thing that you need to do is to avoid being perceived as someone who wants to speed things up. Do not invite her on your first romantic dinner to meet with your family and thinking that she will understand about the formality of things because in fact it will just scare her. You don't want that to happen.
The best places for you to establish an easy connection are those places where you imagine the least: a trip to the movies (when watching a romantic-comedy film, at least), a trip to the zoo if you think you love animals. I personally like going to the zoo because I really like animals and nature. If you think you can do well, make a few jokes by making fun of some animals and also by making comparisons. I assure you it is a good thing. You can also invite them to an amusement park if your budget allows.
Avoid places such as museums. They are really boring and you cannot make fun of anything. It is also good to avoid too noisy places such as nightclubs where you can't speak anything for the music is so high.
You can invite the girl to eat pizza at a place where there is pleasant music or go have a coffee while making a good conversation.
One thing that is dominant in these situations is that you should go have the guts to invite her even if she goes or not. If she declines, the go ask her some other time. Do not force her, respect here decisions. Do things you want to do with or without her; it shows that you do not depend on others for fun.
Do not give too much physical contact on the first date unless you have made before a good connection with it.
With regard to the talks, it is good you change your topics once in a while and avoid those that are the subject of "men" who you only speak when you're with your friends and talk about football, politics, etc... Talk a little about yourself, tell yourself and ask her about yourself and so on.
When you finish your first date just say goodbye and tell her you had fun and that you enjoyed a lot and then go. Avoid arranging a second appointment that day, do it later. Thus, it will let the intrigue of knowing whether or not you're invited back.
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