It tells you that the first step is to understand the different reasons men/women have for ending relationships and what they want in relationships.
Next, it teaches you how to go about sorting out your emotions, tells you why you should cool off a little, and what to do/not to do during this cooling period. It also introduces you to "The Fast Forward Technique", which is an effective way to help you get over the pain.
Thirdly, the book teaches you the ways to evaluate your relationship and what you should consider when you decide your next step. It is really important to evaluate the reasons you have for wanting to get back together with someone.
After that, the The Magic of Making Up focuses on the plan to win back your ex. First, it teaches you how to take care of yourself which is crucial in helping you get your ex back. It gives a wide variety of useful ways to look/feel different and discusses the reasons for doing so. It basically teaches you how to break the pattern and start afresh.
Next, it tells you how dating other people can help you feel better about yourself, and thus actually helps in you winning your ex back. It also tells you what steps you need to take to contact your ex so as to go on a date successfully. Most importantly, it also tells you what you should not do too! Things to do/not to do before, during, and after the date are also mentioned so as to help you get the most out of it.
This book also introduces you to "The Instant Reconnect Technique" to test if your ex is interested in getting back together and even shares the secret on how to bond with your ex again.
An excellent benefit about this book is it discusses both scenarios that could happen after contacting your ex. Hence, the last part is about how to maintain the fun in your relationship if you are back together and how to move on if the relationship really cannot be salvaged.
